Several recent conversations brought to mind this item I first published in 2009. I probably should have mentioned in the first few paragraphs that all this took place in Oklahoma City between the late ’40s and the end of the ’50s.

The following is a year-old draft that I never got around to posting. I’m posting it now, before I edit out any more of whatever freshness it might have had or end up turning it into a novel:
“I am from … ” started as a meme that raced through the blog world sometime last year. It was supposed to be a relatively short piece, a poem of sorts. But it smacked of the kind of list-making that is a virtual compulsion for me, and my “poem” quickly got out of hand. We old ladies like to reminisce, you know.
So I put it aside, careful to save the memories and promising to get back to it someday to organize, clean up, edit, or whatever. Now, on a cold, overcast afternoon, I’m sitting here watching intermittent snow fall, hoping it doesn’t accumulate to shovel-worthy depths, and playing with my list poem again.
I am from …
The heartland, from Missouri stock, lovingly blended in Oklahoma with a little Old West spice, some Iowa sensibility, and a lot of Southern gentility
The land of Will Rogers, Boomer Sooner, wheat fields and hawks, tornadoes, Oklahoma!
A physician father, a lot like Marcus Welby, MD or Jim Anderson on Father Knows Best, in a Happy Days and Grease world
Feeling like the favorite, even with four siblings

Green-vaulted streets lined with sweetgum and hackberry
A white-painted two-story brick house, built in 1909, with foot-thick walls keeping heat, cold, and wind at bay
A huge old maple in the backyard that stood stoically with wood steps nailed up its trunk, a platform in its upper branches, and my plastic horses stampeding over its exposed roots
A pine outside my second-story bedroom bay window where cardinals nested every spring
Parents who permitted my long parade of pets: dogs named Bippy and Tammy, Penny and Pooch; a science fair rat named Charlie Brown; Easter bunnies, chicks, and ducklings; chameleons from the State Fair Midway; tanks of guppies and goldfish; two blue parakeets; and one white cat
I am from …
Before commercial jets, television, cordless phones, computers, transistor radios, TV dinners, garbage disposers, air conditioning, shopping malls, hair spray and hand-held blow dryers
Eating ice chips out of the back of the truck that delivered blocks of ice for our icebox (siblings argue I was too young to remember an icebox and must have just read about it somewhere; perhaps it was blocks of ice being delivered for use at parties)

Mom’s post-Depression post-WWII mantra: Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without
Simmering cicada summers in the days before air conditioning
Creaking, slamming screen doors with crescents worn into their frames by swinging latch hooks
Lazy afternoons at the pool ending with rides home in a clammy swimsuit smelling of chlorine and coconut
Movies with black-and-white Movietone newsreels, previews, and cartoons before the feature

Riding the bus downtown to shop at the department stores, where attendants operated elevators to the upper floors, announcing each stop: “Second Floor. Housewares, dry goods, notions” and you said, “Out, please.”
“Digging to China” in the back flowerbed, carefully avoiding Mom’s clumps of purple iris and ducking under delicate white arches of bridal wreath
Running through sprinklered rainbows to beat the heat
Jumping with joy in the rare, cool sweetness of a midsummer shower and splashing in the gutters where it ran warmed by the asphalt
Scampering for coins as the bell-clanging ice cream man pedaled his cart up to our curb to sell cherry, grape, and banana Popsicles, crunchy Drumsticks, and Eskimo Pies
Searching on hands and knees for cherished four-leaf clovers in that yard up the hill, the one with the real merry-go-round in back
Listening to The Green Hornet, The Shadow, and Bobby Benson and His B-Bar-B Riders on the radio, before we got our first television
Watching Spin and Marty, The Mickey Mouse Club, Lash LaRue, The Lone Ranger, Hopalong Cassidy, Flash Gordon, and Tom Corbett, Space Cadet in the years after we got a TV

Seeing Annette and the Mouseketeers performing — in person! — at the State Fair band shell with a dust storm in progress, depositing a deep muddy sludge at the bottom of our Coke cups before Daddy could even make his way back from the concession stand
Dressing up to fly anywhere, because flying was such a special occasion, and walking out to the plane through a chain link gate in the long chain link fence that lined the tarmac at the airport
Sunday-best Sundays, penny loafers and saddle shoes, bobbie socks and bobbie pins, spit curls and Spoolies, hair nets, sweaters with straight skirts or poodle skirts, Aqua-Net spray net, an entire drawer full of short white cotton gloves
Sitting on the front porch or broad front steps in the evening, with friends driving by and honking their identifying staccato rhythms
Mom calling us all a bunch of honyocks when we got a little rowdy
I am from …
Are-we-there-yet drives to cooler Colorado climes, with four sibs and two adults in my father’s Oldsmobile (any one of a long succession of them, including the purplish one that arrived with a black stripe on one side and a white stripe on the other)

A brief experience trout-stalking and line-snagging with Daddy’s favorite Gray Hackle and Royal Coachman flies in Colorado’s icy St. Vrain streams, while slathered with smelly, oily 6-12 insect repellent
Mom’s breakfasts cooked on an open fire there by the stream — trout, fried potatoes, and blueberry pancakes
A green American Motors Rambler so underpowered that it slowed to a complete stop on a mountain grade
Stopping in Boulder to buy two weeks’ worth of groceries and get the carburetor adjusted before heading up into the mountains
The vacation we spent in a cabin equipped with a pump in the kitchen sink, a wood burning stove for cooking, and an outhouse
Daddy’s happy, booming (and probably very relieved) announcement, “Here we are home!” as we pulled into the driveway at the end of a 750-mile one-day push back to Oklahoma City
I am from …

The time a bootlegger crashed into a tree down at the corner and spilled his cargo of moonshine into the street
An all-white public school, with Colored Town literally on the other side of the tracks
A colored maid named Pearl who was like family and made the world’s greatest biscuits
Clara Luper and one of the first black lunch counter sit-ins
“I Like Ike” politics
Mom buying 20-pound turkeys for our “just family” Thanksgivings
Noisy, puffing, chugging passenger trains arriving at Union Station, while redcaps moved luggage along the platform on huge flatbed wagons
I am from …
Paint-by-number masterpieces completed at my aunt’s farm in central Missouri
Fine red sable brushes smelling of turpentine and swirled in oil paints; crumpled tubes of colors with wondrous names like cerulean blue, alizarin crimson, viridian, ultramarine, vermilion, cadmium yellow, thalo green, burnt sienna

Strathmore sketch pads
India ink and crowquill pens
Innumerable black tins of Prang watercolors with their eight little blocks of paint and cheap camel hair brushes
I am from …
Mom’s favorite Chanel No. 5 and bright red Revlon “Cherries in the Snow” polish and lipstick
Carnation-scented bubble bath and almond-scented Jergens lotion
White Rain (“Use new White Rain Shampoo tonight, and tomorrow your hair will be sunshine bright”) and green Prell shampoos, Breck cream rinse
Floating bars of Ivory Soap, great for carving
Bucky Beaver singing about Ipana toothpaste and tooth powder
Having to wear boys’ wing-tipped Buster Brown shoes, because I always wore out the toes of my girls’ shoes
Duz detergent and Bab-O cleanser
Straight Arrow trading cards from boxes of Muffets Shredded Wheat
Making salt maps for geography class
Buying almost anything at the dime store — for a dime

Collecting stamps from all over the world, stamps in beautiful colors and interesting shapes, from countries with mysterious exotic names, when the U.S. standard was a 3-cent purple Thomas Jefferson
Drinking cherry phosphates at the Veazey’s Drug fountain
Yeasty salt-rising bread fresh from the bakery at Crescent Market
78s booming on my parents’ Victrola in the living room, my own RCA portable record player spinning 45s in my room (Elvis Presley, Bobby Darrin, Johnny Cash, The Righteous Brothers, Fabian), later upgraded to one that would play the new 33s (“Victory at Sea” was my first album)
Listening to all the latest records for hours in the record store’s listening booths without having to buy one
I am from …
Dressing up every Sunday for mandatory Sunday School at Westminster Presbyterian, and attending Bible School in the summers

Having to memorize the Lord’s Prayer, the Twenty-Third Psalm, the Ten Commandments, the Apostle’s Creed, the Doxology, the Beatitudes, and the books of the Bible
The King James version of the Bible
Singing in the youth choir and being taught the pronunciation “in egg shell sis”

Learning manners, the social graces, and ballroom dancing in classes — with boys!
Having to wear white gloves and learning to curtsy and make proper introductions, and how to set a proper table and when to use which fork, and how to make polite conversation — with boys!
All seven of us seated at the dinner table for dinner, every night
Reading incessantly: books in my lap at the dinner table; books with flashlights under the covers at night
Spending hot summer afternoons at the air-conditioned library sprawled in big leather lounge chairs, then finally checking out the maximum number of books and heading home, and eventually turning in the longest summer reading list at school each fall
Devouring all the Hardy Boys books, all the Black Stallion and Island Stallion books and every other book about horses I could find

Starting school each year with brand new fall clothes (the latest Bobbie Brooks plaid), carrying a big bunch of #3 pencils because they held a point longer than #2s, and 3-hole narrow-line paper secured in my treasured zippered leather notebook
Having my very own coveted subscription to Western Horseman
Sharing a fat-tire Schwinn bike with a sister until I was given a dark green, 3-speed Raleigh “English racer” of my own
Wanting a Daisy Red Ryder B-B gun for my 12th birthday, and instead getting a real gun — the refurbished Marlin lever-action .22 that my father had as a boy
School recesses spent playing tetherball, volley ball, dodge ball, hopscotch, and the newly introduced four square on the blacktop and wood tag, red rover, and softball on the grass and dirt
Being terribly shy because I blushed easily, blushing easily because I was terribly shy, and being teased mercilessly because of it
I am from …
Catching and collecting lightning bugs in a jar to make a “lantern” for my bedside table
Refusing to abandon my yellow wool blanket, even on breathless hot summer nights

Keeping a glass of water and a damp wash cloth on the bedside table to cool off during the night
The welcome drone and intermittent breeze of oscillating fans in every room
Taking turns hand-cranking the salt-filled wooden churn to make fresh peach ice cream
Sitting at wooden picnic tables under yellow bug lights, eating watermelon at open-air roadside stands where the melons were kept in ice-water-filled stock tanks
Waiting impatiently at the top of the stairs on Christmas morning while Daddy set up his 16 mm movie camera and bar of hot floodlights to record our descent
Sliding down the stairs on a sheet of cardboard, or sliding down the banister
Leaf forts and leaf fights in the fall
Burning holes in paper or roasting roly polies with a magnifying glass in the sun
Lunches of Kraft Dinner, Peter Pan peanut butter and Welch’s Grape Jelly sandwiches, or Campbell’s Tomato Soup with bacon-topped grilled cheese sandwiches

Earning money by collecting pop bottles (returned for the deposit), wire coat hangers (sold back to the cleaners), and newspapers (sold to the scrap paper company) around the neighborhood with my big red wagon
Forming a short-lived club, the Fourteenth Street Arabians, that met in the apartment/clubhouse above my parents’ garage
My first car, bought by my parents when a younger sister also became old enough to drive: a used white-over-green ’53 Buick with a rusted-out hole under the driver’s side floormat
Bixler’s Drive-In for lunch, after school and after games, and Quik’s for their 10-cent hamburgers and fries
Yes, I am from … quite a while ago.
An anthem. A poster. A t-shirt.
Absolutely wonderful – now, it all seems like a dream
Appreciate you hanging on to it and sharing
At the time I figured if I didn’t write it down, I’d eventually forget it. So I started spewing out all the details I could remember at the time. Last night I got hung up on the Buick, since I didn’t have a picture of a white-over-green one. Looking at all the pics on Google, I began to remember, I think, that it was a 2-door model. But can’t recall for sure.
Try Commons.wikimedia.org?
I loved all that stuff – so familiar
So Texas was about the same?
Yes, it all sounded so familiar – and comfortable. Unfortunate those grown-up now don’t get to experience most of that
I love modern technology, but I sure miss the “Happy Days” feeling. Maybe it just seemed that way because I was a naive, unaware kid.
Super sharing…I mean I shared so many similar memories. Thanks for the joys of our 50s-60s childhoods…but I was in Missouri. Pretty similar!
I was wondering if my experience was similar to the rest of the country, or if other areas were notably different.
Wow. You and I share remarkably similar memories, PT. I was born in 1937 and frequently visited my mother’s side of the family on their Oklahoma farm. I also have fond memories of visiting my father’s side in Tulsa. This is a vanishing part of the American dream, this swirling panoply of culture in a landscape of change and exploding technology. I marvel of late at how fortunate I am to have been born in this place and time, and to have somehow survived all the potential pitfalls, not least, war. Thanks for the trip down memory lane! Well done.
Maybe we passed each other on our visits to our respective farms!? We often drove to Glasgow via Joplin. I was born in 1943, so maybe not. But those really were fun, stress-free times. I sometimes think it might have just seemed that way because we were kids, but based on the stories I hear from my grandson, growing up these days is extremely stressful for numerous reasons. I think we were indeed born in the best of times.
You’ve outdone yourself this time Susan. A beautiful post that held me spell bound.
My first and only bike was a Raleigh, but it didn’t have any speeds, just me, peddling like crazy; it was second hand and pre-war when I got it,
Before I left England in 1951 I gave it to a young boy lived with his old aunt down the road a bit, he was a nice lad a war orphan, parents killed in an air raid; his name was Brian
I’ve no memory what became of my old bike. I stopped riding it when I got past grade school and it was no longer cool to ride a bike. Maybe a younger sibling adopted it (two sisters and a brother). Thoughtful of you to give yours to someone who needed it.
Bittersweet…but mostly sweet. Wonderful memories. continue…
Thanks for stopping by. Yeah, life was simpler back then.
Chanel No. 5 my fave too…what a wonderful post. but sad – in a way eh? continue…
It gets sadder by the day.